Gorgeous guy, a lot in common, nice guy(I think).

Finally asked him to meet me for a drink. We talked for maybe three hours. Good times, no kiss...

Asked him to go to an art walk the next day. He said yes, he'd call me. He texted me but was being vague and distant about going somewhere, so I just did my thing and forgot about it.

He messaged me the next night and I asked him to meet me at a local park where we walked and talked for another three hours. No kissing, very respectful. But every time I ask him about his day...etc, he holds back.

So I figure girlfriend or something.

Later that night I text him and ask why he hasn't asked me out.

He eventually gets to the fact that he just got dumped three weeks ago(Oh crap fresh out) and he's working that all out after being with her two years.

I say okay cool thanks for being honest, we can just be friends, I didnt' know you weren't free.

He says no, I am single.

I say if you're looking for comfort, be careful where you look, I'm a nice girl.

He says, if thats what I was doing, I would have jumped your bones already(Not those exact words).

I have also engaged, once, in...a very explicitly sexual conversation via text, which I'm not too happy about.

I'm waiting for him to make the next move...I cannot tell if he likes me or if he's just lonely or what, he's really hard to read.

Also, he keeps trying to bring up sex via text and I'm trying to avoid the topic as I don't want this to be the basis for the relationship(whatever it turns out to be or not be)... any thoughts on talking(focusing) about sex early on?

I've made it clear that we aren't going to sleep together without some time put in.