Im glad to be the first to respond. Child, you may really like this guy alot, I can tell. But the fact is, he has baggage. While he may in fact be feeling you too, he just got out of a two year relationship. He's not ready yet for a new relationship, he only wants sex. Dont do it, especially if it lowers your standards. Even if he does agree to a relationship, dont do it, unless you like the nick name "rebound". He could still have feelings for his ex, and they could get back together, and he wont care that it hurt it you.