I understand the psychology behind it, but I feel like without some sort of Grk-tried-and-true plan my uber-confidence will not have the chance to showcase itself, because it will be hindered by some dumb obstacle.

Like there is this one (only one) hot babe in my chem lecture, but it's basically been an entire semester and we always sit in the same general respective quadrants. If I suddenly go sit by her isn't that obvious? Is arriving before her or after her more obvious? Is thinking about this the real problem? She also always has a yoga mat with her after 8am lecture which could be the key to a great opener. I always wanted to try the D'angelo classic: "So how is that for your glutes?" Any suggestions for this PARTICULAR CASE. It can't be practice with this one.