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Old 17-04-08, 10:42 PM
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Originally Posted by Austinn View Post
Im in a situation where I could get into a relationship(s) but I like being free to do what I want when I want and not having to have restraints on my activities.

I like to do what I like to do, and I just duno if going into relationships is worth it. Ah yes I should mention these wouldnt be the relationships where you end up getting married, im only 20, but more the type of, eh, we're messing around so we call it a relationship type of thing.

Like is it even worth it to get into those type of relationships, or is it just better when your my age to keep just an open ended friendship so to speak, with no real constraints or binds? Cuzz I dont like being subject to relationship-type constraints in my current lifestyle, im not exactly in serious mode yet is what I guess im saying.

Also I dont have a job that pays above slave labor wages yet so I am not interested in blowing my paychecks on girls that are essentially "have a fun time with" and be done with girls. Im willing to spend money of course, but not the type that a whole-9-yards relationship would require.

I assume what im asking is, to those of you who were once or are in the same type of mindset atm, are those semi-serious relationships that you know wont end up going anywhere but just exist anyways for the sake of it worth it or is being open/avaliable to whatever comes my way better for now?
I think a relationship would be great for you. You sound like you're quite open to it. The problem with you is that, which is not necessarily negative, but you seem to be a bit of a free spirit. Set some boundaries. Let this girl know from the jump that you like to be free to do what you want to do, and you dont like restraints. She'll more than likely understand your free spirited nature.

You guys' "messing around" could turn into something much more deeper, you just never know. Take the chance.
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