Sex drives are widely variable. It is normal for you to want it once a day; it is normal for him to want it less often. This is where negotiation and compromise comes in. You will need to become expert at these things if you want your marriage to last. How often does he think is ideal?

BTW - I sometimes wonder if the guys who are actually willing to wait long periods of time for sex are able to do so because they have a lower sex drive than their peers.

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