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Old 19-04-08, 01:53 AM
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I dont mind accepting that I was wrong but I also dont want him to think of me as a wife who is slutty and just wants sex all the time.

Well, first of all, there's nothing 'slutty' about wanting sex all the time, especially with the man you're married to. He should consider himself lucky! You enjoy sex and have a healthy sex drive and that is nothing to feel ashamed of or bothered by.

Vash is right, though.....you need to discuss and figure out where you guys can 'meet in the middle'. Maybe he only wants sex twice a week and you want it every day....so you can compromise and have it three to four times. It's about balance and communication. You will work it out. In most relationships where there's sex before marriage, this schedule has already been sort of predetermined.....so it doesn't generally become an issue after marriage unless someone's libido starts to divebomb. But that's another story.
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