Originally Posted by
Jak08 
Hey, ive been going out with my gf for just over a year, i love her sooooooo much and weve even talked bout gettin married, btw were both 15.
we havent had sex but weve done like most of the other stuff, but whenever she "finishes me off" with her hand, it can hurt her, she says she wants to do it and she refuses to stop until i .............yno but i feel really guilty about it, even tho she swears she wants to do it.
should i feel guilty??
You mean you blow your load with such force you feel guilty about possibly inflicting bodily harm? You should just control your aim, man.
If you mean that sex would hurt her... well, yeah, it probably would. A lot. Both physically and emotionally. Also, it could hurt you too, especially if she has any older male family members that could ever find out.
Why don't you give it to her for her 16th birthday present? I think that sounds charming. But you have a big responsibility here kid, so think twice before taking away this girl's innocence.