Meh, ignore Grkscorp. His advice is not meant for married people or females, but rather for very young males, and he means no harm.

Assuming you are able to ejaculate with masturbation, I think your problem is simply anxiety. You might want to see a physician and have your testosterone levels checked, and I agree with donut about cutting out caffeine, nicotine, alcohol, pornography, and masturbation.

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