Originally Posted by
GrkScorp 
Don't mind that.., that's just Vash showing us how lady-like she is.. if Vash's advice is anything like her class.., you're better off seeing a physician to get to the bottom of this.. where one lacks advice.., she must find some way to compensate.. but I'm sure she means well..
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Do you honestly want to hear a bunch of recycled ideas of (oh it's stress.., this happens to married people when they get older.., it's normal for guys to lose interest during marriage.., ect)?
This is very obviously a problem for the both of them, as far as I can see. When you are married, there is an certain obligation to pursue a sex life is acceptable to both parties. I didn't realize one had to be married to understand this. No one said she should expect that this is normal for married people.
Also, there is quite obviously a good chance this is a medical issue since the OP is taking medication he KNOWS can cause impotence. Personally, I think knowing this is possibly a medical issue would be a lot more comforting than jumping straight to a psychological problem, which can be more problematic to remedy.
Because of the medication, I am still of the opinion that a medical issue should be ruled out before moving on to more complex matters.
I'd also like to point out that since you suffer a similar problem Grk, perhaps you should consider whether you are too emotionally invested in this subject to offer objective advice. The OP never said (nor implied) he thought his wife was contributing to the problem. It seems you are projecting.