I agree with Jinx.Stop focusing on getting back together and just look at this as time apart.Focus on being her friend and help her as much as she needs your help.Six years is a long time to be together.Don't move in together.Moving in together would only cause more problems.Let her call you and be there for her.Give it some time.Time is a good thing.And she's being a good daughter.Its heartbreaking when your husband of so many years walks out on you for another woman.Think about her mom and stop being so consumed with your own desires.There is time to live out your desires but its not right now.Right now you need to be there for her and let her sort out her problems.Your now ex-girlfriend is not gone forever.Hold onto hope but more importantly listen to her and try not to bring up getting back together.She needs time and you want her to sort this out.Let her be there for her mom.It sounds like she is a good woman,you just have to be more patient.Her being there for her mom is more important at this time.I feel bad for her mom,really and it may take several months before you know any answers about getting back together with her.Be patient because love is patient and love endures and there is hope.Sincerely,Rose