To the sex before marriage thing: would you buy a car without driving it? Would you get married before knowing someone's spending habits, temper when angry, attitude toward children?

Sex is one of the 'Big Three' issues in a longterm relationship (the other two are money & family, btw). I can't imagine getting married w/o knowing what my partner is like in bed. No, its not the only thing that marriage is about, but it sure is a big deal to most ppl & some level of compatibility is important.

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