First of all.., we was right.., you were wrong.., it hurts to be wrong.., but there's no shame in realizing you were wrong.., and it's good that you were shameless enough to realize that on your own.. So with that being the case.., this issue is over.., there's no reason to cling on to your ego and pride.., it's not a big deal.., you love sex.., so what? Exactly.., no issue.., so don't make an issue out of a non-issue.., you can even go up to him and playfully tell him.., "you know.., you were right about the whole sex thing"..

Secondly.., WTF! Who sent out the memo to all women with a bunch of horsecrap definitions of what a "slut" is? Do you know what a slut is? No.., seriously ask yourself this question.., do you really think you know what a slut is? Think about what you think a slut is.., what it means to be a slut.., go ahead.., give yourself a moment to think of that image and concept of a slut in your head.., and now.., as you're thinking about it.., let's talk about what a slut is..

Case: (Slut).., A woman who has very low or zero self-esteem about her inner qualities.., and to compensate.., must make use of the only value she deems herself to have.., "her looks".. to get some form of validation from men.., she is so desperate for validation.., that she is begging to try and sexually satisfy as many men as she can to feel that she is somehow great in some aspect of life.. "sex".., you can extract this information from someone just by the things they say..

(Slut's version of flirting) "I was fcuking this guy once.., and he was all like.., damn.. it feels so good.., you're so tight.., and i'm like.. ugh.., wrong hole there buddy"

(Slut's version of teasing) "My friends got this rubber dildo once.., and we tried to see who could stick it the deepest into their throat.., and I won.."

(Slut's version of seduction) "We should go.., (grabs crotch).., and call it a night.. (licks face.., bites lower lip and sucks it into her mouth).."

(Slut's reaction to male resistance) "Wtf? what are you? afraid of pussy or something?"

In short.., you're either a slut.., or you're not.., there's no gray area.., there's no degree of being "slutty".., that's a female definition adopted to be used as a weapon or character insult against other women.., it holds no truth to what the reality is.. and the reality is that being a "slut" has very very little to do with sex.., and everything to do with lack of self-esteem and self worth.., an unhealthy attitude towards sex.., as a means of gaining validation for themselves..

So.., it's very easy to get the two mixed up.., and incorrectly associate being a "slut".. (an unhealthy attitude towards sex).., with someone who is just a "mature.., fully grown & developed woman".. (a healthy attitude towards sex.., including a healthy sexual appetite and desire for sex).., there's nothing "wrong" or "deviant" about a healthy attitude towards sex.., this is not a person who looks at sex as a means of gaining validation for themselves and building up their self-esteem by having sex with as many men as possible.., no.., this is a person who wants to have as much sex as possible with the one man she shares and feels a strong and powerful emotional connection with.., hopefully you can see the serious problem with confusing this with the definition of a (slut).., the two are not even close!

It would be beyond just silly and childish to inhibit your most natural sexual desires for someone because of incorrectly accepting a socially constructed definition that doesn't even apply to you.., it would be tragic! You've already done it once by limiting yourself to having no sex before marriage.., you've seen for yourself how silly that was.., how pointless that was.., and how it was just for show.., just so you can tell the rest of the world.. "I waited until I got married to have sex.., therefore i'm (classy.., good., not a slut.., etc)".. the only thing it did for you.., just for you.., without consideration for anyone else.., is that it made you miss out on sex.., at a time when your husband's sexual desire was perhaps in tune with your own.., when it was perhaps greater and more than what it is right now.., (I know.., tragic that you did that to yourself)..

However.., the best way to break down any inhibitions towards sex.., is to endulge fully.., in an open and healthy attitude towards it.., If you feel that sex is deviant.., or that you dont' want to admit to your husband that he was right and you were wrong.., or you hold onto your definition of a slut.., and worse.., feel that it somehow applies to you just because you want to have sex with your husband.., then your husband can feel all those things.. and they're not working together in a way to radiate sex appeal.., (they're not exactly sexy).., and you're not looking as attractive.., sexually desireable.., and not enough of a motive to make him want it at the same rate you do..

Without a doubt.., an open and healthy attitude towards sex.., breeds a healthy and enjoyable sex life.. so until you crush and eliminate any limiting beliefs you may have towards sex.., don't expect your sex life to change for the better.. but as you start to remove those limiting beliefs.., one by one.., or even all together.., you'll notice not just how much better sex is for your husband and how more motivated he feels to have sex from now on.., but how much better and more enjoyable sex is for you.., and that's the most important thing.. I wish you luck in whatever you choose you wish to "do"..,

Best,

GrkScorp

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