Originally Posted by
Gigabitch
Um, what about those guys who want to marry a virgin?
What about those guys who want to marry a man? Or a fat chick?
Or those guys who only want an Indian girl from the Rajput caste.., pure breed.., who can dance and sing classical Indian music.. but would not consider anything else?
Sure.., it's out there.., but it in no way represents the majority..
Much the same way if a guy told that to a woman.. "I just want you to know.., i don't beleive in dates, gifts, trips, or dinners before marriage.., I hope you're ok with it".., he would end up alone.., until that rare girl showed up who was willing to forego all that out of desperation.., and eventually marry him..
The same way.., if a girl came up to a guy with that sh*t.., that's the kind of answer she would also get.., until she either rotted alone witha vibrator in her hand.., or came across some guy who was culturally programmed to associate it with positive character traits (noble.., real man.., gentleman.., etc).., and be willing to tolerate the neglect of his own needs.., and see it as some form of self-sacrafice which was noble.. for the sake of love.., (that's the gist of it)