Husband.. no.., every husband would love it.., but the reason it's a (slut).., is because we're not talking about when it's her husband.., but when it's some random guy she's not even dating.. and her motives for sexually satisfying him are not because of anything she feels for him.., but so she can feel like she's good at sexually satisfying men.., so she can feel that she's good at SOMETHING or good FOR something in life.., that she's not completely useless or unloved.. (low self-esteem)

This is why a woman who has sex 7 times a week.., vs. a woman who has sex 30 times a week.., is no more a slut than the other.., you have to look deeper into the circumstances.., and you can actually discover that the woman who has sex 7 times a week.., is actually the slut.., because she is with different men.., who she feels no emotional connection to.., and her motive for having sex is an unhealthy one.., as opposed to the woman who has sex 30 times a week.., with her husband.., who she loves.., there's nothing remotely slutty about that..

You can hopefully understand why it's so frustrating to hear the term "slut" used incorrectly.. It really is tragic to mix up the two or falsely associate it with something that doesn't apply..

But if there's a strong emotional connection with someone.., and the motives for having sex are true, honest, genuine, and healthy.., then (numbers) don't count for anything.., they're meaningless.., you can have sex 80 times in a week with that person.., doesn't make you a slut.., you can grab his crotch and have sex in church or outdoors in public.., or give him a blowjob while skydiving.., whatever works for you.., and it's still prefectly fine.. nothing wrong with it.., as long as you both remember to pull the chord before you hit the ground..

Best,

GrkScorp

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