Originally Posted by
vashti 
Actually, I DO support "no sex before marriage" for people who find it meaningful. I support any way of elevating basic human functions to something more lofty, and I don't see that people who opt to wait should be penalized for it.
This does not mean I feel everyone should be virgins when they marry, though... just the people who find it meaningful.
I'd like to know how you feel about people who jump off the cliff Vash, should they not be penalized by hitting the ground?
The way I see it, if someone makes a conscious decision to not take sexual chemistry into consideration when choosing a partner for life, why should they have the right to complain about it when that sexual chemistry doesn't work out for them? It's their mistake for not considering it in the first place. It's their mistake for not paying attention to it before getting married, before saying the vows. They should try to make the best out of the situation they got themselves into of course, negotiate, be supportive of their life partner and their low sex drive, try positive methods, but the way I see it they forfit their right to complain about it the moment they consciously make this decision to disregard sexual chemistry in the beginning.