I'd like to know how you feel about people who jump off the cliff Vash, should they not be penalized by hitting the ground?

The way I see it, if someone makes a conscious decision to not take sexual chemistry into consideration when choosing a partner for life, why should they have the right to complain about it when that sexual chemistry doesn't work out for them? It's their mistake for not considering it in the first place. It's their mistake for not paying attention to it before getting married, before saying the vows. They should try to make the best out of the situation they got themselves into of course, negotiate, be supportive of their life partner and their low sex drive, try positive methods, but the way I see it they forfit their right to complain about it the moment they consciously make this decision to disregard sexual chemistry in the beginning.