Originally Posted by
Zaphod
I have asked for her help in the matter and also my doctor. ...
The problem is obviously going to be either a physiological problem (related to either your hormone levels or your medication, for example) or an emotional problem. If you have discussed this with your physician already, then I am guessing you suspect the problem is emotional. Have you tried talking to a therapist? There are people who specialize in sex therapy. I'd find one if I were you.