Hey all,

sorry for bothering. I've been reading the forums for a while, and want to get something off my chest. I'm not looking for advice (but if you think you can help, please do :)), just some listening ears and people who want to swap stories..

My story:

GF and I've known eachother since we're 18, we've been together since. 5 years later (about 7 months ago) we started living together and things have changed...

Recently an admirer of her told her he loved her, went to pick her up from work and drove her home.. and they kissed. Wait, I'm telling it wrong.

Recently, she was crying at her laptop. I heard her so I went over, hugged her and asked what was wrong. She replied she had so much work and was totally overwhelmed. We hugged some more, and I checked out her laptop after that. She had just finished chatting with that boy, his words were "if you think that is your decision.. I'm sorry" or something.

So I asked her what was going on, she told me he told her he loved her. We hugged, but she told nothing more. We started talking, and after some time she admitted he drove her home. I asked if something happened and begged her to be honest, she told me nothing had happened.

The next day she changed that story and admitted they kissed, and that she felt guilty. We had a long talk and decided to try and revive our relationship.

The last week I've tried.. cleaning, doing dishes, spoiling her, being home when she got back from work, taking care of our pets, calling her at work to see if she was fine, ...

Today she told me she started feeling that I was more like a "brother" to her rather than a partner. I didn't know what to say... she's gone to a girlfriend of hers now.. chattering away, probably (hopefully) about us too.

I am a pretty rational person, but I love this girl and can't really imagine losing her.. well I can, but I would be heartbroken..

Sorry for bothering y'all, thanks for listinging.. well, reading :)