It's lovely that you are trying to spoil her and whatnot, but really - her kissing that boy probably wasn't really about what you *weren't* doing for her. Relationship routines lend themselves to a certain amount of predictablility. Some people enjoy that, others not so much. What I am trying to say is that you shouldn't feel as though you need to jump through hoops to keep her. Maybe you should just step back and tell her to make a decision.

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