Originally Posted by
Gigabitch 
Well, is she you end-all, be-all dreamgirl? Is there any way this might be a bit of a relief to you too?
As I said, I am very rational. She is a end-all, be-all dreamgirl, yes, I can see myself spending my entire life with her. But I know she is not the only girl in the world/continent/country to which that applies.. I do think I can't get any better than her though. We seem to have so much in common.
Originally Posted by
Austinn this is like the most popular type thread on these type of forums, a guy lives with his gf that he's been with yada yada yada and boom she wants to taste the forbiden fruit and all hell breaks loose heh
you know what i think is the reason for this type of scenario being so amazingly common is that theres to many eligible guys out there and not enough eligible women for the guys so theres bound to be this never ending vortex type pull on the women lol
I'm sorry Austinn, I know this is a popular type of thread and it must be the 100th time you've read something like that. Thank you all for taking the time to reply, it does mean a lot to me, even though it might just be 5 minutes worth of text to you :)
I think the statistics show there are more women than man, and more man prefer to remain single than women. I don't believe your reason could be what is causing this situation.
My view on the "increased seperation" is that many people idealise a relationship ('as seen on TV'), thinking every day is a holiday, everything is always perfect and the entire path is a smooth sail. A real relationship means work though, means sticking up for eachother, making concessions where needed, sometimes putting the other person and his/her needs before yourself and your own needs. Many people are just not prepared to have that and want the "perfect" thing.
Maybe she'll realise after spending some time alone or in an other relationship that there's no perfect life. I just hope that she'll come back to me then, and not stay alone/with the other guy. And I hope I haven't found someone else by then, because I know she could tempt me right back into her arms and cause me to leave the other (hypothetical-future) girl.