I'm referring to those who have been cheated on while being in a committed relationship for a substantial amount of time, being cheated on by someone you loved.....

How long did it take you to get over that, how long till you moved on. What was it about the next guy that allowed you to open yourself back up and give love another chance.

Do you still have insecurities while in your new relationship, although your new lover hasn't given you any reason to?

Did you have a hard time allowing yourself to trust someone new even though he gave you no reason to?