Well from my outside view, I would say go for it in the department of deeper sexual contact. I mean she has been with you a year, which SHOULD mean she is attracated to you lol, and you to her, so you have got to give into your carnal male feelings and desires, cuzz I mean if you two arent having sex and you, the male, arent even pushing for it she probably see's that as a general turn off that her own guy is not more insistent on consemating yalls relationship after a year, a year is a long time to be with a girl and not have had sex...