I wasn't looking for anything serious but I wasn't looking for just sex either. I guess in the end, that just equates to friends with benefits, which I didn't realize until recently.

My friend was at a party with one of the guys I'm dating, A. When A's friends asked my friend how he knew A, my friend mentioned me and they gave me a oooh yeah. kinda of response. Did A tell them? Was I a sexual object?

A few weeks ago, A and I spoke about relationships and he wasn't ready for one. I wasn't either. But after that, he kept contacting me to hang out and etc. Why did he do that?

I just broke up with my ex a month ago and was still kind of fragile. I cried on A's shoulder and spent some time with him talking about it. He tried to get information out of my friend about how I feel about my ex now. Does he care enough for it to be more than a casual thing?

He tries to charm me but he still talks about other girls in front of me. Am I being treated as a friend? Or is he hoping that I would be jealous?

When he described his perfect girl, I was the complete opposite. So it's like ...what's up with that too?

Maybe I'm too hung up on these things but please help me so I can see the situation clearly. I'm too biased because I like him too much. I'm not into the idea of friends with benefits type of relationship either. So I'll need to end it if it is just that.