Alright, this may sound stupid and all, but i have honestly never heard of ANYONE having this problem, which seriously confuses me.

Whenever me and my fiancee does something, she is pretty safe as she doesn't leak much, but me as a guy, is acting pretty much like a tap turned on a little. I have to use; paper og keep wearing my pants, which are then totally soaked.

How the hell do you guys avoid that? Am I that strange, or don't you care about that huge wet pool on the bed?

And besides that, we aren't having sex, never. And she isn't giving me oral either, and even if she did, I don't think it would help me anything at all....

I am considering getting condoms simply so i don't have to use paper or my pants, as both makes it a lot harder for her to get me off, which sometimes leads to me feeling too sorry for her, and then me not being able to get off >.> and her getting a sore arm for trying for too long X.x

And incase anybody is still not aware, I DON'T refer to peeing in bed >.> Thats just disgusting