being on the outside point of view, i was in your case, the best friend's father.

i personally would jump at the chance to sleep with your girl..sorry, but it's the truth.

however, if she doesn't talk to me anymore, then i was assume that things were over and she got caught or what not. also being that she is still with you, (in my eyes, would make me desire her more) however, the truth is that she has made her decision to stay with you.

raverboy

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