This is driving me crazy so i have to elaborate on his little "abused" statement...
It was another night where his friends came before me again, after i had asked for 3 weekends in a row to get out together...(i'm good to have sex with but not to take out anywhere..thats what friends are for) so i was pissed,i had a bad day, just found out my step father had terminal cancer..i really needed to get out...so wheni went over there to tell him to basicly take a hike, he said and i quote " just go back home to your dying father" ...so yes as you guess he got a slap in the face before i left...it was COLD AND CALLUS..and this from someone that claims to love me???? mhmmm i'm feeling the love alright...so sorry, he had the slap coming, its far from ABUSE everyone said "you only slapped him?" There were alot of friends that wanted to do more than slap him at that point.

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