Originally Posted by
veinteuno 
then came the anonymous discovery (someone had forwarded the email from my girl's address, to mine. her job had previously addressed her excessive emailing to me. they even had printed out the emails she was sending, even though it was from a yahoo address. part of me thinks that someone there did it, in hopes of putting an end to the excessive emailing).
This part stinks. There's plenty going on here, and it isn't somebody from her office trying to put an end to excessive emailing. Aside from this preposterous conclusion you've drawn, you seem like a reasonable person with a good head on his shoulders, but this is ridiculous. Forwarding emails like these is distinctly personal.
I think there are answers to be found, here. Is there any way at all you can find out where this anonymous tip came from?