Oh, Jeeze. I'll be 40 in three weeks- I kinda know how she feels about being in a panic about her life. What I think she really needs is a heart-to-heart talk with a girlfriend, someone needs to tell her it's not too late to fix this.

Unfortunately, there is a lot of support for women who want to dump their families and run off with a new man. You wouldn't believe how many "You go, girl!"s I got when I got divorced a few years ago- it was like the whole world thought that made me some kind of paragon of woman-power.

She's got a lot of emotional momentum at this point, I would imagine. She's not going to skid out for a few weeks, even months, but believe me, she will eventually.

I have a lot of sympathy for her and I feel bad that she might be making a great big ass of herself. I wish she would get on here as well and try to explain what possessed her.

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I think all women really want is to be proven wrong about men.