i understand where you are coming from, but if i met a woman that had 5 kids, shit, that would be more than enough for me. (honestly i would never date a woman with 5 children, but i'm shallow like that). however, i dunno your personal situation as far as legal disputes so i won't really get into that shit.

on the side though, if this man already sees past your five children, then she can easily see past having his own child with you. you don't necessarily have to tie your tubes up, however, do you really want another child?

raverboy

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