Try going to the bathroom just before you two get hot & heavy (i.e. before you get hard).

There's nothing wrong w/you & don't feel stupid for asking. At least you asked! But if the bathroom thing doesn't work, you think there's still too much liquid, talk to your doc.

'Petting' is a word from my generation. From the long lost days of a polite society. Nothing wrong w/it. Young ppl won't recognize it usually.

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