Originally Posted by
that guy 
i am no angle and i take blame where i have fault in what has happened between us through out the years of being together. after all it took two to make it this far. honestly i have tried to comunnicate my wants, needs, values and morals that i feel are important to me in a relationship. i cant make her like them or listen to what i have to say.
I'm impressed you care enough to read all your SO's posts & post a reply.
Mindsecho, you should realize this^. The fact that he took the effort is a huge sign he cares.
You two are at cross purposes. I sense a huge amount of frustration & miscommunication but sense you still care a great deal for each other.
Please both of you, but esp 'thatguy' have a read of this site. It may help you until you find someone more local. Scroll down to the section on Marriage & Relationships.
http://www.denisboyd.com/psychealth/
For 'Thatguy' I'd like if you could please read this one specifically:
http://www.denisboyd.com/marriage-re...e-up-guys.html
- Indigo