Originally Posted by
veinteuno 
okay, now, i'm in my situation, so maybe this is a defensive mechanism on my part but, for me i'm seeing a key difference in my situation, and this one. from what i'm reading, your gf minimized it, and wrote it off as just being friendly. mine has acknowledged that what she was doing was wrong, and owned up to it. yes, she tried to claim the message dates were inaccurate at first but, she did own up to it, and didn't just write it off as being "friendly".
i appreciate your feedback. but, i'm just not sure how much of an apples to apples comparison this is.
Oh no she owned up to it eventually...she apologized and told me she was stupid for saying that stuff. That was the "insert bullshit" in my message.
It doesn't really matter if she cheated on you or not. The question is, will you be able to trust her? You have a few options in your situation right now.
1. You can stay with her and know you can trust her.
2. You can stay with her but you will have trouble trusting and end up having problems later on and probably breaking up.
3. You can leave her because you know you won't be able to trust her.
It's all up to you right now, we can't tell you what to do.