No, you're perfectly fine. Your friend loves and cares about you and meant to explain that women like to please men too, and don't consider it a chore. I'd say you have a tender soul and a loving heart, and your girlfriend will be very lucky to have you. Stay that way, and don't let masculine stubbornness and egoism get to your head.

My boyfriend likes to lie around and just hold me too. Those can be the most cherished and magical moments you'll never forget.

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