Thread: Public Displays of Affection..
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Old 03-05-08, 08:39 AM
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Originally Posted by GrkScorp View Post
For as long as it's nothing sexual.., there's nothing wrong with PDAs..

Obviously.., social reputation and image are important to women.., so even acts of affection which are not sexual.., may seem like.., "oh no! I can't do this here! it looks so wrong!".., no such concept for men.. seriously..

If she says.., "not here!".., he says.., "I understand".., (not because he agrees.., but because it's important to you)

Personally.., I think a little PDA is important.., it helps keep the relationship open.., and just helps two people be more comfortable with eachother..

I've known couples who don't even kiss or even hold hands in public.., I mean.., common.., grow up.., either that.., or get over yourself mr & mrs. noble.., seriously.., you're not at some palace.., where all the royalty.., the house of lords.., and every U.N. diplomat is watching.., nobody cares.., so stop being so fake/up-tight.., and just be comfortable enough to express any non-sexual affection to the person you love.., no big deal..

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GrkScorp
Why is everyone on these forums so sexist?? Social reputation and image are important to some people, both women and men, but not others. And not all guys would say they understand. The rest of what you said I generally agree with though. There's nothing wrong with holding hands, hugging, kissing, and the like in public. But some people may simply not like physical contact so you shouldn't just assume if a couple does not show public displays of affection then they are immature or uptight about it.
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