| Know when to talk, and when to listen, it sounds simply enough,
but many people struggle at this aspect of the conversation.
Don't go saying too much, where you go boring your date or friend, that they
become disinterested, give them a summary and let them give you feedback.
I get carried away sometimes myself, because I want to get a point across and
am in the moment that I feel what I am saying to be true to my heart and honest.
If your having starting conversations with girls that you want to approach,
I've said this multiple times, but it can be applied to everyone.
Ex. Start talking to strangers on the street that you come across for a few seconds to a
minute and listen to what their feedback is, and then respond back and see their reaction.
This works better when your in public and people around, since your open enough to talk
to new people without hesitating that they start noticing you and you seem like someone
that they would like to know and you get more confidence by doing this also.
It takes lots of practice and experience to let it flow naturally with people, but If your
an open-minded person and can share your views with anyone, then talking to a girl,
will be like a friend that you've know for a long time.
P.S. Just go try out methods that work for you, and don't be afraid to make a fool out of yourself,
at least you tried which most people have trouble doing.
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" Nothing is a waste of time, if
you use the experience wisely. "
=> Auguste Rodin
Last edited by Kromat : 03-05-08 at 11:02 AM.
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