Originally Posted by
Tommy
There is no set amount of time. It is all dependent on "you" wanting to get over this person and taking the correct measures to do so.
Will I love my ex to an extant always. Absolutely.
Am I over her? Yes...
6 Year relationship... 3 Months to get over it...
I noticed the biggest help was accepting it, after that it gets much easier. Stop asking yourself "why" or "what did I do wrong" because more than likely it had nothing to do withy you.

the thing i dont' understand is that i HAVE accepted it and i DO want to be over it and let things go...but for some reason my heart still hurts a lot.
this is what frusterates me, is that i've accepted it and want to be better yet i can't seem to make it happen.