Originally Posted by
javagirl87
the thing i dont' understand is that i HAVE accepted it and i DO want to be over it and let things go...but for some reason my heart still hurts a lot.
this is what frusterates me, is that i've accepted it and want to be better yet i can't seem to make it happen.
You may tell yourself you are over it, but inside you there is still a possible glimmer of hope, or something that will not let you move on. It is usually a "wanting" to know why, or unanswered questions.
Some say ignorance or naivity is bliss, but sometimes hearing the answers to your questions can be more detrimental than not.
A feeling of rejection or not being wanted is natural after a breakup, but in reality you must believe it was on him to do it, and in reality probably had nothing to do with you, or what you did. If the relationship was worth it, he would have stuck it out.
Keep your head up, use your time contructively, go out with friends and make moves in your life that will make you happier and more positive in your daily life!
