Reality: he's a teacher. He shouldn't be holding your hand and smiling at you like that. He's a ****ing jerk for doing that to you because he's playing your emotions like a fiddle. He's definitely someone to avoid because he has pedophile tendencies.

Look, I'm a college professor. Adult college students come to my office and cry about things in their lives. I don't hug them, I don't touch them. I use my words to express empathy. I listen to their issues with real concern. BUT, I never touch them. Not my business to form that kind of deeper emotional bond.

There are even students who I know I would like and would probably be good mates--and some of them even give me the signs. But, as far as they can tell, I'm a tone deaf nerd because I never let on to seeing their overtures and I never express my feelings...they are clientele, they are trusting me emotionally and intellectually...and thou shalt not **** around with the students. Even more so for your PE teacher, since he's playing around with the emotions of a minor.