I'm curious how many times is kinda usual to be having sex. I've read a lot of posts and see 3-4 times a week coming up often and appearing normal. Are most guys happy with that?

I feel like my boyfriend (22) is absolutely sex mad, but perhaps I'm wrong. He wants sex, as in legitimately wants sex and wants it now, about 3-4 times daily. It can't be a quickie either, it lasts at least an hour each time. At first it was great I suppose, but we've been together for over 2 years now. If I refuse he gets really angry and disappointed and either holds me down whilst he masturbates over me or watches porn to get off.

I feel sorta like he's saying "well you're not good enough, so I'll go elsewhere". It's been going on so long now that whenever he starts with me the bottom drops out of my stomach and I start to feel stressed and worried, not a real turn on. Then, because I'm not turned on he gets annoyed again and the cycle continues.

I'm not sure whether it's me that isn't enough or whether he is wanting too much. We still have sex about 5-7 times a week, but I'm beginning to hate it because I get made to feel so useless at other times anyway.

All advice welcome,
Hellfire (21)