wow.....okay everybody is different. when my boyfriend and i first starting dating that all sounds familiar...the times per week i mean. Now we honestly have to find time to have sex. If one of us is in the mood and the other isnt because they dont feel good, are tired, or are stressed...etc etc...its not a big deal because when we do have sex its amazing and we both enjoy it.... if he gets aggressive when you say no, hell i would let him go watch porn and take care of himself...if it bothers you then honestly tell him and if he doesnt change maybe you need to consider leaving...