I just wonder how many of you here still contact with ur ex after being ditched? I've been feeling pain, confused to emotionless..Sometimes can cry when watching comedies and find it funny while watching sad movies..Everything seems in a mess..Sometimes I can stay very calm and emotionless.. not very sure if I still like my ex or wad..the reason for the breakup was his feeling for me have drifted off and he can no longer commit..

Well me and him lasted for ard 3 yrs plus and he has got himself a gf 2 mth after our breakup..quit expected because I knew that he start to fall for someone not long after breaking up with me..I was like quite prepare that they will be together.. However, I also have the feeling that they will not last long..maybe because there were many frens and their family members dun tink they suit each other.. So I was like no feelings whenever he told me anything about her..No jealousy, nothing.. When I told a fren of mine, he thinks that I was simply avoiding and hiding my feelings..not actuali emotionless.. I duno I'm quite confused..

After our breakup he still contact me quite often even after he gt a gf.. It this a habit and totally no feelings? Its abt 4 mths from our breakup and I was like quite used to being alone sometimes..but I will still tink of him and whenever there is special occasion like v'day or birthday I will like hoping to hear from him etc..I just still cannot get over with him.. Deep down, I was like still waiting and hoping that he will one day find that I'm the right one for him..I know this is silly but sometimes heart just doesn't listen to the brain..sigh..

What should I do? Can I just wait for him while carry on my life while we still contact each other? Or do I wait while not contacting him anymore? Is he just trying out new gals bcos he is sick of being with just me for so long? After all he has just step out of army and entering the new environment for half a yr..