Wow. She's cheating on her boyfriend with her husband. Beat that. What do you think would happen if the boyfriend found out she'd been boinking her husband behind his back?

I don't think she has any reason to delay finalization of papers beyond the fact that she doesn't really want to get divorced.

I am worried about her mental state too, Down not Out. I'm concerned that she's heading for a breakdown.

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