Ya know you have me in tears right now...cause I KNOW theyre are a great men out there-and we know this-we're just wondering where they are? Guess sitting at home and doing the same thing we are..."where are you?"

I know and feel EXACTLY what you are saying Prodigal...I do. And I thank you for your thoughtfulness in your response. Truly I do. There are times when it does seem hopeless. And Im NOT a pessimestic person this is what drives me crazy.

I have met someone whose wonderful...have no idea where things are gonna go and my friends are envious of what I have going on with him...but the fact remains there are so many of my friends that are lost...and I dont know what to do-and at times I feel like my situation is to good to be true and it does scare me. But Im taking the risk-Ive said it before-if Ive never wanted to take one before-I do now.

I wondered if it doesnt have anything to do with demographics as well...yes Im in a retirement area that doesnt offer much in the way of meeting new people and so do some of my other friends. I have the opportunity to move to AZ which is a happening area for people my age-but I dont have the NEED for someone and wouldnt move half way across the country for something I dont need. I want a relationship like everyone else-to have and be with someone who will compliment me(not in the way of telln me im pretty) you know what i mean. I believe there is someone for everyone...its just finding that initial connection and making the effort.

I do see people giving up too early...and or not trying to make a go of something once theyve got it. Its so easy to say "**** it" nowadays...it really is...and I dont want to be that person. I adore my friends to the extreme and hurt for them and want nothing but the best the very best for them because they deserve it. Hell I do too-

"good things come to those who wait..."

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