Jeezus. Well, for what its worth, you're welcome to come vent here whenever you need it. I know its 'just the internet', but there are real, live ppl at the other end of the electrons & we feel for ya.

But get to a counsellor for your own sake soon. You're surrounded by f'cked up arseholes right now & you need to hear from a professional who's seen it all before that things WILL get better.

They will. Your wife WILL regret her decision. We can all see that guy she's with is no good. Stay the course & keep your chin up, man.