So.., what you're saying is.., that right before you have sex.., you take her to nice places.., and you think this is sexy why? Do you think it gets her wet down there in some way when she steps foot into that place? Or when you say "nice" things?

I'm trying to picture this..,

You: I just really like spending time with you
Her: Omg.., i'm so wet.., fcuk me!

Unless you want to use a different word.., seduction isn't it though.. I have no idea why guys consider it seduction.. do you mean "attract"?

Do you know this person already? And if so.., is she attracted to you? Are you looking for ways to make her attracted to you? Or is she already attracted to you, but you'd like to make her more comfortable with you.., and would like to establish more chemistry and connection with her?

Can you be a little more clear on your question?

Best,

GrkScorp