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Riboflavin · #6 (**permalink**) 11-05-08, 05:41 AM

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Originally Posted by TroyTompson

So been with my girl 5 months, the last couple of days had some problems. Basically she was not the best girlfriend i ever had but she was very beautiful. I have gotten to the point where i am starting to loose it slowly because you can only handle it for so long. She snaps at me, like if i rub her back while we are waiting for food to be order, or if i kiss her on the cheek she said it feels like i lick her face because my lips are wet, i touch her bum she said she feels like i just want sex, we are both 21 and i dunno what to do, i love her so so much but it is like i am in a relationship with a 10 year old?

She says sorry but a few days later, i have broken up with her 3 times before, like i dunno she admitted to me she is self centred and is selfish and she wants to change, but i don't see it, we have had no sexual contact since we started going out and if i mention sex we fight, do i get rid of her?

You make her look bad, but honestly, you're not making yourself look too good either. Just because she is very beautiful, you are staying with her and love her? That is what I'm getting from your post and it serioulsy makes you look just as immature as she is. I would expect teenagers to act this way, but you are older than that and should start growing some balls for yourself. Future actions can be predicted by past behaviors. You have already broken up with her THREE times. She tells you her faults yet she does nothing to change them. She is MEAN to you when you want to be affectionate. You don't need or have to put up with any of that. There are plenty of good looking women out there who will not treat you like crap and love you. Respect yourself a little more and maybe you can find them.