Also, I dated a virgin in graduate school. She wouldn't let me do her. She's practically do herself, rubbing on me, but not the big deed. It was really irritating because she was selfish...getting off on me, but not letting me do so...I told her that, too...that in essence, she was laying her guilt on me which was BS.

So, strategy? Took her all the way up to the edge before sex, then said, "Oh, I don't want to go there since you don't want to." She was totally ready, too. She said, "I'm so turned on right now that you respect me that much. Okay, I want to do it with you right now, you're going to be my first."

I said, "Ah, thanks not." I walked out on her at that moment, went to a local pub and met an old girlfriend...screwed her brains out that night.

Next day, the virgin actually walks into my office cubicle...my boss was totally shocked...and demands to know what is up. You could tell (girls have a sense) that she knew I'd had sex (they can smell it off of you, or something). I was so totally non-plussed...it was like, "F-you baby. It was all about sex for you and if you want to play that way, plan to get burned." We dated again for about three months and she was putty in my hands...then I broke up with her on my birthday...what, I can't have a gift of freedom from her?! LOL