Originally Posted by
Gribble 
Love is a load of crap. There is no love. There's lust and once that dies there's the memory of lust. But nothing else. All that fairytale crap is just that, crap.
But you won't believe me. Not until you've been married ten years and the only thing that keeps you from leaving your hubbie is reminiscing about those first few months when the lust was still there.
I'm coming to the conclusion that I cannot diffuse lust from love.
If I no longer lust for my girlfriend, the relationship as it is, will die. Though, clearly, you spend enough time with somebody, you develop a love for them. I love my friends if for only for the fact we grew up together and been through a lot of shit.
'Course we need to continue doing things outside of sex to develop the other side of the relationship, need a balance
So long as she keeps me fluttering around her voluptuous body, I won't be distracted as easily by other women. That's why she's goin' out this weekend to get some new clothes.