Originally Posted by
Gigabitch 
Well, that's probably #1 in the Big Book of Bullshit: the old "I don't want to ruin the friendship" bit. You want her. Your friendship is already compromised and false. Ask her out.
Yep. Agree w/Giga on this. As far as 'losing' anything, you can't lose what you never had in the first place, can you?