Originally Posted by
Mishanya 
This is one of the reasons why I don't reveal my intentions and never "obvious". Situations like these require a keen intuition, which guide you where she's at without actually asking any questions or any revelation of interest. It can sometimes be like burning bridges, like shouting curses at people. You know, once it's said it can never be unsaid.
It looks like she was interested, but at some point she lost her interest. Perhaps you revealed too much interest in the beginning and made it too obvious (i.e. boring) or perhaps it was something personal to do with her. Whatever the reason was, there's not much you can do now so it's best to focus your mind elsewhere. Go out with friends, do some work out, watch comedies, play music and most importantly go out and try to meet someone new.
I workout everyday...that's what i do. Today i've already been and i'm about to go again (just got off work). That's the only time i can get my mind off this.
I don't really go "out" with friends unless its some type of athletic situation.
Anyway, even after trading letters I told her i may start working away from her because i have this urge to see her and want more then just being co-workers. Shes not willing to give me anything but she asks me and wants me to stay and work with her and talk to her....she likes me and thinks i'm a great genuine guy, she doesn't want me to leave....but shes not giving me anything.
It's like shes still indecisive, do you want to talk to me or not? If you don't care to spend any time with me away from work, if you won't let me communicate with you away from work then why ask me to stay around for you while at work. wtf....
i swear i'm not mad at her but i'm confused and frustrated. She looks so genuinely happy to be around me, i can see it in her eyes, she seeks me out, i'm pretty much the only one she'll talk to and then all this bullshit, what the hell. I don't want to talk to you but don't leave me and talk to me.